Welcoming Death with the Skeleton Key to Life

Life is our most epic adventure. The experiences we have, the people we meet, the hurdles thrown into our path — all are part of our journey. We dream about who we want to become, the places we’ll travel, and the milestones we’ll reach. But rarely do we stop to think about Death.

Usually, we avoid it. It’s scary. It’s sad. It feels unwelcome. Death is often associated with fear.

But aren’t we supposed to face our fears?

Facing Death Instead of Fearing It

Death is inevitable. None of us are getting out of here alive. So what if, instead of fearing it, we welcomed it? What if by acknowledging it, we could live more fully?

By facing Death directly, we release the hold that fear has on us and give ourselves permission to live Life to the fullest.

The Purpose of This Series

This six-part series provides a roadmap for getting your “house” and affairs in order — legally, financially, medically, and digitally. Whether you’re 18 or 70, planning ahead creates peace of mind for you and for your loved ones.

Each post will explore the what, who, when, and why of organizing life’s most important matters, with guidance from legal and financial authorities.

Why Planning for Death is Really About Life

Before diving into the practical steps, let’s reframe the conversation:

Preparing for Death is not about fear — it’s about freedom. By planning ahead, you remove uncertainty and anxiety. What may feel like a grim exercise can actually be one of the most life-affirming things you ever do.

• It ensures your love, values, and intentions endure.

• It allows you to live each moment more fully.

• It frees you to focus on the “right nows” instead of the “what-ifs.”

Your 700,000 Hours

On average, each of us is given about 700,000 hours of life (79.9 years). The question is: how many of those will you spend simply existing, sleeping, or leaving things to fate — and how many will you spend truly living?

By facing Death with clarity, we give ourselves the best possible chance to make the most of Life.

Terra Sickler

Attorney; Twig, Trade, & Tribunal, PLLC

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